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Celebrating Good Mothers-in-Law – by Heather Day Gilbert

I always like a family story, especially if it has a good mother-in-law/daughter-in-law relationship. My favorite woman in the Bible is Naomi. She is the ultimate mother-in-law role model. Ruth’s promise to her – “Where you go I will go, and where you stay I will stay. Your people will be my people and your God my God.   Where you die I will die, and there I will be buried. – indicates a rather staggering level of commitment. That is love.

When I read Heather Day Gilbert’s Miranda Warning, I found a new heroine in Nikki Jo Spencer, the mother-in-law of the main character. She’s amazing.  I want to BE Nikki Jo. She gets even better in Trial by Twelve! So when it was time to write about Mothers Day, I thought of Heather, and she kindly agreed to share her thoughts about mothers-in-law . Thanks, Heather!

 

Happy Mothers Day… Celebrating Good Mothers-in-Law

By Heather Day Gilbert

 

Yes, you read that title right. Despite popular opinion, some mothers-in-law are indeed good.

We’ve all heard the mother-in-law jokes that sometimes seem eerily accurate. The controlling MIL. The imperious MIL. The _________ MIL (add your own adjective).

But I also know that good mothers-in-law exist, because I HAVE one. And I constantly ask myself how I can be a good mother-in-law someday (yes, I think about things like this and I actually keep a list of things I want to do as a MIL and grandma, although given my lack of organizational skills, I might not stumble across that list before I’m dead).

As an author, it makes sense that I write both healthy and strained mother-in-law relationships. I thought about doing a rundown of all the MILs I’ve written (Thjodhild and Runa in God’s Daughter and Forest Child), Nikki Jo in Miranda Warning and Trial by Twelve, and Esther Sue McClure in Out of Circulation and the upcoming Undercut, but I decided to focus on Nikki Jo Spencer, because so far, she’s my favorite.

If you’ve read my books, you know I have no “perfect” characters. Each of my characters struggle with real-life issues, and mother-in-law Nikki Jo Spencer in A Murder in the Mountains series is no different. She has her foibles—she’s a bit of a gossip and she can be nosy—but she’s also solid gold when it comes to backing up her daughter-in-law Tess, no questions asked. She’s a superior cook and one of the wealthiest women in the small town of Buckneck, West Virginia, but you’d never know it by the way she treats everyone.

But I think the thing about Nikki Jo I’d like to emulate is this: she respects Tess and she loves her like her own.

That might look like bringing Tess a meal when she’s wiped out. That might look like letting Tess (a relentless sleuth) stay with her when a serial killer has discovered where she lives. Obviously the danger level is more dramatic in a mystery series than in real life, but I do think there’s something admirable about Nikki Jo and Tess’ relationship.

Nikki Jo’s personality isn’t the same as Tess’, which I think is often the case with MIL/DIL relationships. Nikki Jo is chipper and peppy. Tess is a realist and a risk-taker. But they have things they can learn from each other. Tess knows she carries the Spencer name now, and that means something special to her. She loves the family God allowed her to marry into.

I’m not saying MIL/DIL relationships are easy. I’m not saying they’re all ABLE to be as good as Nikki Jo and Tess Spencer’s. Sometimes boundaries have to be set, to maintain your own sanity (whether you’re a MIL or DIL). Not everyone is a Ruth and Naomi. And let’s face it—sometimes love looks like telling the truth in love so the air can be cleared.

But if you happen to have a loving mother-in-law like Tess Spencer does, be sure to tell her so this Mother’s Day. Let her know what a blessing her love is in your family’s lives. Celebrate this extra layer of love God has wrapped around you.

Miranda Warning by Heather Day Gilbert

Read more about Nikki Jo and Tess Spencer’s good in-law relationship in  in A Murder in the Mountains Mystery series.

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HEATHER DAY GILBERT

Heather Day Gilbert

HEATHER DAY GILBERT, a Grace Award winner and bestselling author, writes novels that capture life in all its messy, bittersweet, hope-filled glory. Born and raised in the West Virginia mountains, generational story-telling runs in her blood. Heather writes Viking historicals and Appalachian mystery/suspense. Publisher’s Weekly gave Heather’s Viking historical Forest Child a starred review, saying it is “an engaging story depicting timeless human struggles with faith, love, loyalty, and leadership.” Find out more on heatherdaygilbert.com.

 

 

 

 

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Jaime Jo Wright – Author Interview

Jamie Jo Wright - Author Interview at www.catheswanson.com

 

I met Jaime Jo online through the American Christian Fiction Writers, but even though we both live in the land of Packers and Bratwurst, we haven’t yet met in person. I recently read one of her novellas, Gold Haven Heiress, in the California Gold Rush Romance Collection, and asked if I could interview her on my website. She graciously said yes and donated a paperback copy of the book for me to give away!  Barbour makes beautiful paperback novella collections. This one has covers that open and fold out to reveal western landscapes, and the paper is beautiful soft and heavy with deckle edges. Beautiful. See the raffle form below for your chance to win it!

 

 

 

Welcome, Jaime! It’s fun to have you here.  I know authors have the best book recommendations, so tell me… what are you reading now?

I am currently in between books, actually. But LOVED reading Kara Isaac’s “Close To You” and Joanne Bischof’s “Lady and the Lionheart”. They were both so well written and have stuck with me far longer than most books I’ve read this year!

Do you have a favorite contemporary author?

Well, it sounds redundant now, lol, but I LOVE Kara Isaac. She’s new to contemporary romance but has such wit and voice I can’t get enough of her.

What’s your favorite genre for your personal reading?

I waffle between mysteries and historical romance. It’s a bonus if they’re combined!

What one book – other than the Bible! – has most greatly influenced your life?

Ohhh, that’s a great question! I was greatly impacted by Dietrich Bonhoeffer’s “Cost of Discipleship”. It pretty much hits you between the eyes in how seriously you’re going to live your faith.

How about writing? What’s your favorite genre for writing?

I love historical romance with twists of mystery and suspense!

What is the hardest part of writing for you?

Time. It’s a challenge to write with a full time job and two kids under the age of 6. Balancing the home and church also makes it a tad sketchy to eek out hours of writing time.

That’s a full plate! What is your “day job”?

I’m the Director of Employee Sales, Development & Associate Relations for a medium-sized corporation. It keeps me hopping for sure!

What does your writing process look like?

Well, considering time is difficult to find, it’s more like I write scenes in my head during the day and then grab 15 minute snippets to dictate them down on my phone app or type them on my laptop. Ideally, I get an hour or two at night after the kids are in bed to really focus. Coffee is always, ALWAYS involved.

Do you ever experience writer’s block?

I don’t! I know that sounds weird, but if I’m not sure what to write I usually just plow ahead and write anyway. It often gets deleted, but if I just sit and stare at the laptop then I’m definitely not moving ahead.

Do you know the ending of a book when you start writing it?

Usually. I typically have the skeleton framework and then fill in the rest on the go.

Gold Haven Heiress

Gold Haven Heiress by Jaime Jo Wright, in The California Gold Rush Romance Collection

 

Gold Haven Heiress had some emotionally intense and some lighthearted scenes. Do you laugh and cry as you write your books? How emotionally attached do you get to your characters? If they were real, would they be your friends?

I’m not a crier, and I don’t usually get attached to my characters on an emotional level. I love creating them, molding them, and seeing them come to life, but they are fictional after all, and the fact that I have their conversations in my head is scary enough. Lol If they were real? Some of them might be my friends. Some of them would probably drive me nuts. LOL!

What are your current projects?  Do you have any books coming out soon?

I’m currently working on my next novella, releasing in July 2017. It is part of Barbour’s “Of Rags and Riches Romance Collection – a Gilded Age Novella Collection”. My novella is titled: “The Flyfisherman’s Nymph”.

I understand that’s set in Wisconsin, and I am looking forward to it! In the meantime, where can we find you online?

Web site: www.jaimejowright.com

Facebook: www.facebook.com/jaimejowright

Twitter: www.twitter.com/jaimejowright

Pinterest: www.pinterest.com/jaimejowright

Instagram: www.Instagram.com/jaimejowright

Goodreads: www.goodreads.com/author/show/13916081.Jaime_Jo_Wright

Periscope: @jaimejowright

 

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Enter to win a paperback copy of The California Gold Rush Romance Collection!

 

 

 

Professional coffee drinker Jaime Jo Wright resides in the hills of Wisconsin writing spirited turn-of-the-century romance stained with suspense. Coffee fuels her snarky personality. She lives in Neverland with her Cap’n Hook who stole her heart and will not give it back, their little fairy Tinkerbell, and a very mischievous Peter Pan. The foursome embark on scores of adventure that only make her fall more wildly in love with romance and intrigue.

Jaime lives in dreamland, exists in reality, and invites you to join her adventures at jaimejowright.com.

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Salsa & Speedbumps ~ an Author Interview with Susan Baganz

Susan Baganz

I met Susan Baganz at an American Christian Fiction Writers meeting. It was my first experience with a writing group, and Susan went out of her way to make me feel welcome. She has the best kind of bubbly personality – the kind that hints at a deeper, more thoughtful nature. Her books are the same way. They are delightfully fun to read, but they touch on serious issues with compassion and sensitivity.

Her other books include Pesto & Potholes and a Christmas novella, Fragile Blessings. Her new book, Salsa & Speed Bumps (Prism Book Group), is a contemporary inspirational romance novel being released TODAY, January 22!

 

Salsa and Speed Bumps by Susan BaganzHi Susan! I’m looking forward to your new book! Is Salsa & Speed Bumps part of a series?
Yes! It is the second in my Orchard Hill Romance series. Book 1 is Pesto & Potholes (April 2015). Book 3, Feta & Freeways, is due out later this year and the next three are contracted: Root Beer & Road Blocks, Bratwurst & Bridges and Donuts & Detours. The individual novels stand on their own. You don’t have to read them in order to enjoy them.

What made you decide to set your series in Wisconsin?
The old adage “Write what you know” was kind on my mind. I used to live in the Milwaukee area, north side, Menomonee Falls and Germantown. I also used to work in and around Milwaukee. It seemed a good setting for the adventures I would come up with.

How did you come up with the title?
When I wrote Pesto & Potholes it was just as a fun exercise. I wanted to give a real-life example of the pothole concept that is brought out in the story. I thought it would be fun if my guy was an Italian chef. I love pesto sauce so Pesto & Potholes was born. It was just a fun lark but then a friend on Facebook said that book two should be titled Salsa & Speed Bumps. I hadn’t even considered writing another story at that point. This was just for fun! I loved the concept so when I was ready to write another book—I took the title and ran with it. I decided that my guy, Roberto, would be of Hispanic descent, and there’s a bit of “heat” in there so salsa fits. Stephanie definitely hits a speed bump.

Is there a message in this book that you want your readers to grasp?
The story explores how we, as people of faith, think about our circumstances and view others. I struggle with this myself. Philippians 4:8 is kind of a key challenge: “. . . whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is of good repute, if there is any excellence and if anything worthy of praise, dwell on these things.” (NASB) I know that when pain or depression or other challenges knock me off my feet—it is a huge challenge to do what that verse says and my characters wrestle with that. I suspect I’m not alone in that struggle. Otherwise the apostle Paul wouldn’t have addressed it in Scripture.

What was the hardest part of writing this book?
I’ve had several back injuries over the years and I will struggle with the after-effects for the rest of my life. I think in many ways I related to Roberto’s agony as he struggles. While my pain issues/injuries were not as severe, they have at times been debilitating like he experiences. I relate to the pain and sympathize with his suffering. Writing a person with a chronic health issue while they seem healthy on the outside . . . was a challenge. Chronic pain can be redundant and for outsiders who don’t have that issue it can get tedious and boring to hear about, especially when there’s little they can do to help resolve it. Many times there is no resolution. With Roberto you can get the sense of just how fatiguing and frustrating that ongoing battle can be, even when there might some opportunity for relief.

pesto and potholesTell us about your characters! How many of them appeared in Pesto & Potholes?
Renata was Stephanie’s best friend so she appears in Salsa & Speedbumps along with her husband Tony. It’s fun to see how their story continues and how they’ve grown and are there for Stephanie in her trials.
Stephanie works for De Luca’s Cucina (owned by Tony) as part manager and hostess. (There was a bit of a reorganization of the restaurant in Pesto & Potholes). She’s a live wire. Confident, beautiful. And single. She was there for Renata after her world fell apart and was instrumental in connecting Ren with Tony and encouraging them on their journey to love. Now the table is turned and Renata gets to be the one to help her friend through some painful circumstances.
Roberto in an attorney who has some skeletons rattling his closet which makes him more than willing to accept Stephanie’s (I don’t want to give it all away!). He’s a hunk and there’s definitely an immediate attraction between the two. He’s more button up but gracious and has an integrity that shines through when life throws him curve balls. For all his weaknesses there is much to admire in him.

Are any of the happenings in the book inspired by events in your own life?
As I said, the back pain I can relate to (but I’m allergic to pain medications that contain codeine, real or synthetic). There are others but I don’t want to give away all my secrets!

I’m looking forward to reading it. How about you? What book are you reading now?
Her Deadly Inheritance by Beth Ziarnik. It’s an Inspirational Romantic Suspense. It’s a fabulous debut novel by a talented author.

What is your favorite genre for your personal reading?
Absolute favorite? Inspirational Romantic Comedy – hard to come by which makes it all more wonderful. Janice Thompson is a master of that. Sandi Bricker has also written some quirky characters as well. I read a variety of things though, mostly romance. Contemporary, Romantic suspense, Regencies (harder to come by those in the CBA). Sometimes my editing work takes me out of that box though. There is so much wonderful fiction out there!

How about writing? What is your favorite genre to write?
I love writing the Contemporary Inspirational Romance but I started out writing Regencies. I find it fun to play with the language and rules of that time period. It’s weird to go from writing a story where people might be texting to each other to one where a woman can’t even write a man who is not a family member, unless they are engaged! To go from cars to carriages and ties to cravats. It’s fun but sometimes Regency language seeps into my contemporary writing and it did with Salsa & Speed Bumps. I would challenge readers to spot it. (Hint: It’s a short phrase used three times!)

Do you know the ending of a book when you start writing it?
I only know that it will be a happily-ever-after ending. How they get there and what that will be like? I have no clue until it emerges on the page.

Do you laugh and cry as you write your book? How emotionally attached do you get to your characters? If they were real, would they be your friends?
I don’t usually cry when I write but I might get sad. I have laughed while writing though! There have been times of tears when it’s done and I’ve read it.
I have a friend who is also a writer, who tells me I have an unusual relationship with my characters. If you get me talking, you would think they are real people. I will talk about them like that. Like they are my friends and I’m just taking dictation. So would they be my friends? I would hope so! In my inner world they already are and I love them all.

What is the hardest part of writing for you?
Fear. I wasn’t nearly aware of how much fear paralyzed me until I started the journey as an editor and author. I suspect it is for many writers. That’s why my word for this year is “Fearless.”

Do you ever experience writer’s block? How do you get past it?
I don’t call it writer’s block. With every story I write I hit a wall. I will be filled with self-doubt. The part of the story will seem like it’s boring to me. I’m a panster (write by the seat-of-my-pants) so I never know what’s going to come next. Sometimes I talk to a friend and brainstorm and the story might take a fun turn. Most often though, I just force myself to sit and write through the fear. When I’m done I could never tell you where that spot was. I think ultimately the wall is fear. I fear that what I’m writing is crap. But when I push through that I find my way to the happily-ever-after ending for my characters.

Fragile Blessings by Susan BaganzIt’s always interesting to hear about our favorite authors’ writing process. What does yours look like?
The house we rent has a sunroom and I have my office in there. It’s a large room so two bookshelves make a partial wall for a bit of privacy as my daughter has a computer on the other end of the room! My desk is an antique drop-leaf table that I sanded down and painted white a few years ago. To the left of that is another desk and some box type shelving. To the right against the wall is a long table which right now is a dumping ground but when it’s cleaned up it’s my spot for sewing (which I don’t enjoy but sometimes do because I need to!) and where I can make cards.
My laptop, named Rosie (because she is pink!) is on my desk in front of me and there is a larger monitor connected to it on the left. I have two windows framed in lace, to look out of to our driveway but also to the bird feeders there.
Sometimes I do editing on paper with a pencil and I do that on the loveseat in the living room with my puppy curled up by my side.
I usually write in silence. However, I do have children and computer games can make noise so at times I put on my headphones and listen to Classical music when I write Regencies. The last few contemporary novels I’ve written were to a mix of music by Burlap to Cashmere and Steven Delopoulus (his solo records). Their personal backstory was a spring board for two of my novels (#’s 3 & 4) and I love the harmonies and the amazing guitar playing.
I’m not a coffee drinker and right now am weaning myself off my Wild Cherry Pepsi addiction. I don’t have any “must have” kind of food. There is, however, a stash of chocolate hidden though for whenever I need it. (don’t we all?)

Do you have a job outside of your writing career?
My most important job is Mom. I also volunteer at my church in a “behind-the-scenes” type of role serving the worship teams and sometimes counsel and encourage women one-on-one when the pastors send someone my way.

What do you like to do that is completely unrelated to writing?
Sleep. Although that’s not entirely true because I’m often working through scenes as I fall asleep and wake up. I like to make cards (rubber stamping) but that’s kind of writing related too, because the art of sending a card in the mail is becoming rarer. I love to sing and pretend to play guitar.

What are your current projects?
I’m not writing a new story right now as I have a lot of revisions and editing to do on mine and other projects. I have been praying about my next contemporary novel which I suspect will be written this year when the characters finally decide to settle down and take over my life. I hope it’s not too soon though as I have a lot to do!
The next story (#7) in the Orchard Hill series is tentatively titled Truffles & Traffic since Kristen Hammer at our local chapter of ACFW (American Christian Fiction Writers) has continued to challenge me to write a story with truffles. Hey, I love chocolate so why not? It will feature a romance between a couple, Jo March and Benedict Elliot (a British import) who’ve been divorced, come to faith and after some mishaps (of course) fall in love again. That idea is based on a real life story of a couple I knew in my past. Wonder if Lindt would sponsor or endorse that one?

Where can we find you online?
Blog: www.susanbaganz.com
Facebook fan page: www.facebook.com/susanmbaganz
Twitter: @susanbaganz
Pinterest: www.pinterest.com/silygoos

Do you have any other books coming out soon?
Salsa & Speedbumps releases January 22, 2016
The Baron’s Blunder (a novella and a prequel to my Regency romance series), releases August 2016 as part of the “Love is . . .” series of novellas by Prism Book Group.
Feta & Freeways hopefully in September 2016

I’ll be looking forward to those. Thanks for sharing your book and your life with us, Susan. Have a blessed day!

 

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